U.S. Reference Guide

Child Loss & Family Bereavement Statistics

A carefully sourced collection of U.S. figures on fetal loss, infant loss, and the children and young people affected by a death in the family.

Last updated September 9, 2026

The figures behind a lasting loss.

Statistics cannot describe an individual child or the depth of a family's love. They can, however, give writers, advocates, and support communities a clear view of how many families are touched by loss. Each figure below links to the public report or organization that published it.

Fetal loss in the United States

20,005

Fetal deaths were reported in 2023

This figure includes fetal deaths at 20 weeks of gestation or more, as reported nationally.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics, 2025

5.53

Fetal deaths per 1,000 births

The 2023 fetal mortality rate was measured per 1,000 live births and fetal deaths at 20 weeks or more.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics, 2025

Infant loss in the United States

20,162

Infant deaths were reported in 2023

An infant death is the death of a child before their first birthday.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics, 2025

5.61

Infant deaths per 1,000 live births

The national infant mortality rate in 2023 was unchanged from the previous year.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics, 2025

65%

Of infant deaths involved preterm birth

Nearly two-thirds of infant deaths in 2023 occurred among babies born before 37 weeks of gestation.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics, 2025

Loss reaches far beyond the moment it happens.

The effects of death in a family extend to siblings, friends, classmates, and whole communities. The National Alliance for Children's Grief uses its Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model to show the scale of that experience among young people.

1 in 11

Children will experience the death of a parent or sibling by age 18

Source: National Alliance for Children's Grief, accessed 2026

14.7 million

Young people are projected to be bereaved by age 25

Source: National Alliance for Children's Grief, accessed 2026

How to read these statistics

The figures on this page describe different experiences and should not be added together. Fetal mortality data cover losses at 20 weeks of gestation or more. Infant mortality data cover deaths before a child's first birthday. Childhood bereavement estimates describe young people who experience the death of a parent or sibling.

Rates also show important differences across communities. For example, the 2023 infant mortality rate was 10.93 per 1,000 live births for infants of Black non-Hispanic women and 4.48 for infants of White non-Hispanic women. That disparity is reported here for context, not as an explanation of its causes.

Read the National Center for Health Statistics infant mortality report

Sources and methodology

This page uses the most recent final national reports available for 2023 fetal and infant mortality, plus current childhood bereavement estimates published by the National Alliance for Children's Grief. Source links are included with every statistic so readers can review the original data and definitions.

Cite this page

Michelle Lyn. “Child Loss & Family Bereavement Statistics in the U.S.” I am Still Here, Mom. Updated September 9, 2026. https://iamstillheremom.com/child-loss-statistics